Tearful days

For the last few days.... well since Friday really, I have been rather on edge, ratty and rather frayed around the edges. In fact... a lot.

Iv'e not been able to sleep properly. Everything, everyone and anything has been making me angry and irritable. I have been bursting into tears for no reason  and Iv'e been really snapping back at hubby.
I'm not sure if its due to the sudden change in the weather, the pressure that has built due to caring for hubby, having to scrimp every penny together just to pay the bills and feed my family. The doctors incompetence of diagnosing and referring hubby onto the right boards for a proper diagnosis. Or if its a whole combination of these. I did take a pregnancy test, but that was negative. So if it is my hormones, then I don't quite understand why. But I so pose that the joys of being a woman!

Anyway it came to a bit of a head this evening. While I was preparing dinner, the cats came into me and staring making a noise for there tea. Hubby had been pottering in and out of the kitchen, chatting. But I had found it hard to engage in proper conversation. The one of the cats then let out this 'feed meeee' meow and I just flipped and screamed " SHUT UP". Hubby then rather forcefully spanked me, to which I chucked the fork I was holding and ran into our bedroom in a flood of tears, shutting the door behind me and falling onto the bed. It took a few minutes, but hubby came and joined me on the bed, scooped me up and hugged me for so long and tight. I cried for what seemed like an age, but was only a short time. I did feel better for it, but I'm still feeling like I just want to attack the world any anyone who threatens our family.


Maybe I need a good de-stress spanking, to let it all out, but I'm unsure how much my emotions can fully take. If hubby decides that it will happen, but I don't think Iv'e got the strength to ask....

Mobile phones, Straps and my Bottom!

Hubby has set only a few rules for me, but one is that I carry my phone with me at all times.(forgive me if ive already told you this). This is because due to his condition he needs pretty much needs 24/7 care, So on a Friday, his mum comes round when I'm at work. but there are times that I have to pop out or go shopping, and hubby doesn't want to come... so hence the phone.

Well anyway this week, we moved the kittens out of our bedroom, (3 of our cats had kittens... long story and not the time or place to talk about it) this was because there little bladders were finding a place to relive himself, and one of them peed on my phone charger. So I was rather reluctant to use it till we new it was safe, and I didn't charge the thing until Friday. Hence it did not come to work with me. and I had to go shopping yesterday, and even though it was charged... I forgot it!


This morning after I had my bath the consequence's of my actions caught up with me. Every time I go out without it, I receive 5 of the strap. I walked into the bedroom, and hubby followed me in. He picked up the strap and said did I want to get it over with while my bottom was still warm from the hot bath. I said so ony 5, for sat.. but he reminded my about Friday to. 


I was told to lift the towel, bend over the bed and count. 10 of the best followed by a "Thank you sir".

Well lets see how long it takes me to forget the thing this time xx

A spankingley good morning.

Woke up this morning to Hubby's cuddles. As Iv'e said for the last few weeks, with all the storms England's been having, Hubby has been out of his normal sorts. But this morning was out of this world. I got woken up by one of his deliciousness spooning cuddles and kisses. and as I arched into him more, he very slightly turned me to the side and spanked me oh so wonderfully. I couldn't get enough of it this morning and was very disappointed when he stopped. but it did lead to a lovely morning love making session and some inspiration to the next bit of fiction...It was later on the bus on the way home from town for food that I was thinking that I usually find the shopping rather a laborious task, I like to  get my veg from the green grocers etc, and support local business as much as I can with a small budget we have, but today... I practically skipped round town and didn't care who saw me lol

Thank you my Hubby for a wonderful Morning and a wonderful day.
He has promised a bit of a spanking tonight........ we've just got to see how he goes xxxxxxx

Naughty food

I was baking the bread this week, when out pops one that looks like this....

So it got me to thinking what else out there in the food world looked like our bottoms.

Not sure about the last one.... looks like something else though....

Hope every ones had a good weekend xx

Questions

Would you rather be spanked outside in a cold woodshed or inside by a cozy fire?

Hubby has a bit of a work shed as we come out of the house, but I couldn't see myself being spanked in there. So fire to...

Would you rather be spanked in public or private?

Define public..... Is that out in the open or in front of others? Iv'e had the first, but not the second. But I prefer in private

Would you rather fantasize about spankings or actually be spanked?

I do fantasize but prefer a good real one!

Would you rather be spanked for humiliation or for your spanker's pleasure?

I never get spanked for humiliation. And would never want to. But id rather get spanked for hubby's pleasure. and often do lol

Would you rather be spanked by hand or hairbrush?

Always hand. Hate that blooming brush!

Would you rather be spanked until you cried or until you are aroused

I like both.

Would you rather have just a red bottom or welts/bruises?

Mmmmmm hard one. I like a red bottom, but seeing the stripes of a cane or strap brings a big smile to my face. I know hubby likes both, but I think we both prefer to see the marks.

Would you rather be spanked for the naughty things you have done or just because you enjoy the experience?

Id prefer to get spanked for the joy of it, but I find I get a lot more out of a DD spanking, and that often leads to enjoyable things to.

Would you rather be spanked with panties up or panties down?

Panties up for a bit of a warm up, it gets you in the right place I find. but once the main spanking starts..... totally pants off! Sometimes find knicker elastic will get in the way if there not totally down

Would you rather be spanked OTK or bent over a table/chair?

Because of some logistics, OTK is not really good for me. I often find I get really dizzy and sick and cant cope with it which spoiled the experience. But we do a version where hubby sits on the edge of the bed and I'm OTK'd with pillows over my feet, (bad circulation) and a pillow for my head. Over the chair or sofa is also fun but prefer on the bed

Would you rather your spanker have physical contact with you?

Always, weather its me on him, or an hand on me, it sometimes feels detached when there no touch.

Would you rather be a brat to your spanker to deserve a spanking or simply ask your spanker for a spanking because you know you needed it?

It depends what mood I'm in and what mood hubby's in. I do like playing the brat to get a spanking, but I also will just ask. Usually those ones are for when my head needs clearing or I'm very stressed and it needs to come out. but I will also ask to go over his Knee on the sofa if we are watching a film, I find it very relaxing just to be spanked like that.

Have you received a spanking in the last week?

Ohhh hell yes, sit spot still very sore

Would you rather be spanked for the physical pleasure or the emotional release?

Both.

Would you rather be spanked by a despotic, mean person or by a compassionate, benevolent person?

Hubby is the only one who I will allow anywhere near my bottom!

Would you rather be talked to while you are spanked or no talking at all?

If its DD then I get both, and I need both. but for pleasure, I like to be talked to, and talk back as well.

Would you rather get one swat at a time with pauses to let the sting set in or a continuous tanning to build up the fire?

Errrrmmmm....... both. I love the continuous tanning so I can run through the pain barrier, but then I enjoy the swats one at a time, it seems to last longer that way.

Would you rather be forced into a spanking or willingly submit into a spanking?

I often don't get the choice. Hubby just drags me off lol

Would you rather have a safe word or be pushed beyond your preconceived limits?

I have a safe word, but try not to use it.

Would you rather spanking be part of love making or not a part of love making?

We use it for both

Would you rather that spanking be a surprise or something that you have to look forward to?

Anticipation always gets me going, but a surprise one is also very fun...

Would you rather that spanking be a part of role playing kinkiness or a response to events that have happened in reality?

I cant decide... sorry

Would you rather be cuddled or scolded after a spanking?

Always a cuddle, and to be told that "I'm a good girl now" never scolded!

Feel free to copy and paste!~ Would love to read what you guys have to say!

swinging around?

Any one got any wonderful ideas of how to spank on a bed like this???

The funnier the better...... love to hear your answers xx

I sit before you with what is rather a red behind! and its been 7 hours since the actual event!
I shall start at the beginning. Well last night I said to hubby that he might want to read my last post. I now think that I should have ermmmmmmm........... not!
When hubby got into bed last night he told me that I was a naughty girl. Gave me a long cuddle and then we drifted off to sleep.
This morning, hubby asked how I was feeling. (as I did him) to which I said I was feeling not to bad.  I thought was going to be any other normal morning but alas hubby had other ideas. Wondering into the bathroom after him, he once again asked how I was feeling, to which I said, I was OK. so this got the response of....

"Right, you will go and find the hairbrush and wait back for me in the bedroom!"

My face dropped

"Off you go!"

So I slowly wondered back into the bed room. My mind was in total denial, but I went strait to the draw with  offending brush on and put it on the pillow as is our custom. I sat on the bed thinking ohh crap. He walked back in and stuck some pants on and then told me to stand!
The lecture began about how although I'm his carer,' HE IS STILL HEAD OF THE HOUSE!' yes sir.
Then over the lap I went.

First it was the hand! and what a hand it proved to be. Hard and fast. It didn't feel like I was getting a warm up, but I know he was to some degree! This seem to last what felt like a life time but it was probably only 5 minutes worth at first. He had given me a pillow to cry into but it wasn't that wet..... yet......! he stopped and came down to me level to kiss me, and tell me that he loved me, and that he appreciates al that i have to do for him.
"I know you find it hard my darling, and sometimes the stress is very hard. but you must remember that im the one in charge, not you."
"yes sir"
"And im only doing this because I love you, you do understand that dont you?"
"yes sir"
Then the onslaught of the hand continued. and it got harder as he went on. swapping hands every few minutes! My tears were flowing very well by this point i hasten to add. he stooped again, held my hand and told me that he loved me. and gently rubbed my very hot bottom with the other, my mind started to relax thinking it was over.... but nooooo I was very very wrong!

"Now that was your warm up, lets begin with the spanking!"
At this point i buried my head into the pillow (I will add now that i have a pillow as we live in a ground floor flat with very thin walls, so our bedroom is one of the safer places but the pillow is also required as our bedroom faces the road. so its there for a muffle as well a small amount of comfort.) and the feel of the back of the hairbrush skimmed over the hot cheeks. Yes I tensed and waited. Didn't have long to, I can still feel the strikes on my sit spot!!!!!!! The hairbrush must have gone on for another 5 minutes or so. I was screaming and crying into the pillow with such gusto,

 that I thought the gas repair man outside was going to knock. He stopped again and asked if the de stressing was working....... I sobbed "yes sir" once again. 
We had a bit of a chat about love and discipline and then he dropped the bombshell.
" Right, I was going to cane you..... ( big tears started to fall again) but I've decided to use the strap instead!"
Settled back over his lap he announced that he wanted me to count.... which means a yes sir afterwards.
the first 20 were split between each cheek. and the next 10 were over both cheeks. I thought he was going to stop then. 30 is usually our limit. but Hubby carried on...... 38...thank you sir.....39.....thank you sir.....40....thank you sir..... 41!!!! thank you sir..... right up to 50. The last 5 felt like my cheeks were on fire! My sit spot was burning.
And then just for good measure Hubby used his hand once more to drive the point home again. To say I was spent would be an understatement!
Cuddles, loving, and lots of I love you's later, I gingerly got up and had a look. He had done an impressive job!!!!!!!

So as I said, I sit hear now with still a really sore bottom! but it seems to have done the trick. I'm a lot calmer, and more at peace with myself and life. (plus the fact that we got some rather good news as well this morning, (after the spanking) in the post helped. We don't owe the tax man over £300, which he thought I did)
Thanks for taking to time to read, see you all soon!

Bottoms up (this is for all us curveys out there)

Isn't this the truth. I mean I have nothing against the slender figure, often I'm rather jealous with some of the clothes that they wear and wish my legs would look that good. But we do like a good big round bottom.

On the spanking side of things, we have had a bit of a slow few weeks, unfortunately hubby has had a rather bad time with the English weather, all the storms effect his Touretts, so he has spent a lot of time under the covers of the bed, and now he has a abscess on a tooth that is due to come out, so he's in no fit state for proper spankings. The thing is I think I really need a head ship and a de-stress spanking. I'm scared of telling him and I don't know why. I know that once he is feeling better that normal service will resume, but because I'm also hubby's carer my brain will sometimes (well a lot of the time) think that I don't need head ship spanking, so when its mentioned I bulk.
SO I know I need to sort my head out and let him do his rightful role as my HOH.
I will let you know how it goes, as he is bound to read this, and then I'm in for it...... well me cheeks are.

What's in a name.....

Hi there all, this is for the ones who used to know us, and also for the new ones who we are just meeting.
So first of all, if you haven't already guessed, my hubby and i used to run a joint blog. But alot happened in our personal lives and we had to stop.
Since then, we are now married.(oct last year) but with in those 4 years,hubby has been diagnosed with a disability, and was unable to work properly, so our spanking life to a small detour as I was working a 50 to 60 hour week in the hospitals and out in the community for the NHS. Hasten to say that my desire to be spanked was some what over ridden by the desire to SLEEP. And throughout all that time hubby was being diagnosed with Touretts syndrome ans aspergers syndrome. He suffers from a multitude of other things that are related to the conditions such as ADD, OCD and many others which i cant be bothered to talk about, but if you want to learn more the link is http://www.tourettes-action.org.uk/. He has the worst strain you can get and one of the highest levels of aspergers so life changed alot. We still spanked, but not very often.

HOWEVER one of hubby's Tics is to spank my bum with full force. I've had some rather impressive hand marks to say the least. So that's how i got my name, i'm now what is called a Ticcers wife.
Our lives now are much more relaxed, as well as can be lol, I now only work 4 hour a week in a local business close to home, and the rest of the time i'm classed as hubby's full time carer. This happened in jan this year, and its taken me that long to catch up on all the sleep that i lost.  Our spanking and dd life has been coming back and we both felt after talking to a spanking friend that it might be time to come back and see how things have progressed. and wow, its soo good to be back. Finding ones like hermione and Ronny and of course daisy and MBS still going was truly wonderful. But there are soo many out there that we are now discovering whic is brill. 

Anyway, happy spanking and please come and follow us. Hubby's name is aspiticcer.

TW

a new school, cont....

CRACK...... that was the 10th echo through the school. Rebecca McDonald was receiving the strap yet again.... what had she done this time she wondered! Three months had past since she had arrived, she had settled in well, made friends with the other teachers, and the girls seemed to respect her to, some even liked her. She felt safe in her surrounding now. As she made her way to her classroom number 15 struck. She must have really caused some aggravation this time, normally Rebecca only received 10 of the strap.
the room was quiet, settled and smell of dinner was permeating the room.

"Miss" I turned round and one of the girls was in the door frame,
"Yes Jenny, how can I help you?"
"Headmaster asked me to pass this to you miss" Jenny gave her a slip of paper.
"Thank you Jenny, you best get down to the hall, you don't want to miss supper." she opened the note,
                                'Dear Agnes, would you care to join myself for a wee dram after supper?
                                       meet me in my study about 7pm

                                 Hamish.
This was the first message she had received from the head like this, what did it mean? was he calling apon the first meeting. A naughty shiver ran up and down her spine. As she slowly made her way to the hall for supper her mind was a whirl with feelings and ideas of what was to come...........

Supper went by in a haze. She came out of the hall not remembering what she had eaten, but her appetite was satisfied. Her stomach now felt somthing else.. was that apprehension she was feeling. The school was quiet, her footsteps sounded very loud on the wood as she made her way down to the heads office. The door was slighly ajar as she reached it, but manners rang true and she knocked anyway.
"Do come in my dear" he was at his desk. On there was 2 glasses out ready, and 3 of the implements that he had used on Rebecca earlier in the day..... "I keep meaning to ask you Miss Heggie, what is your first name?"
"Its Matilda, but everyone calls me Mattie head master."
"Now haven't I told you about that...... its Hamish in situations like this... Single malt? "
" Yes please ... ah Hamish, with a dash of water.... please?
He was walking over to the counter with a number of bottles on. " Ahh you have been shown well..... very good, that what I like to see." He rejoined her back at the desk. Mattie was slowly feeling the nerves drain from her ad she slowly sipped and served the malt. truly wonderful. the thing was it was also starting to take effect. because it had been some time since her last indulgence, she found herself feeling very warm and her inhibitions were also slipping away. Without realising it, she picked up one of the tawse's and started to run it up and down her hand, it was well worn leather, smooth to touch. you could tell it had been well used over the years, slightly soft around the edges. the texture made goose bumps appear up her arm. Hamish was watching her with a cheeky grin on his face.
"What made you joins us at the school Mattie?" his eyes wouldn't stop sparkling at her.
"I new of your good reputation and how well discipline the girls are, and now I know why....." She met his gaze and smiled. "Hamish."
"Would you care for a demonstration my dear?"
She sipped her glass and noticed that it was full again. Was he trying to get her drunk... surly not.
"And how would you go about doing that Hamish?"
"Well I'd first of all take you by the hand" and as he said so, he got up and took her by that hand " and then position you over the front of the desk like so..." she found herself there, bent over, head near the leather on the desk " and then I'd begin to slowly bring up your skirts" Mattie inhaled sharply as she felt the cool breeze hit the back of her legs " and bring down these draws you happened to be wearing" the flesh of her lilly white cheeks was awash with goose pimples, " and then....."
Spank....... it was his hand, soft but firm, spank, spank. spank. " I would warm you up with my hand....." he lightly rubbed her cheeks,such a beautiful sight to see over his desk for a change.  he could feel her quiver under each strike, it was soo glorious to feel.
Mattie could feel the tension full leave her body now. She felt as if she belonged on that desk right now. nothing else mattered in the world. His hand would stop with every few strikes and caress her now pink bottom.
"And then after I had made sure you were sufficiently pink, then I would use this my dear." The warm soft leather was teased over her cheeks, another sharp intake was had, and then 'CRACK' 'CRACK' across both cheeks. A small squeal found its way out of her and she could hear the head let out a small rumble of laughter. After 5 or 6 more strikes over her now red hot cheek, she could feel her legs starting to wobble and she held onto the desk for all that it was worth. Hamish noticed the shift in her weight, and stopped. He rubbed the spots that were red and glowing. They made his palm itch with the heat radiating from them. She let out a deep breath a relaxed onto the desk even more. In just those few strokes, he had made her see the sun and moon and stars. What a pleasure to be under a man with such power and yet such a gentile.
Hamish slowly helped her to stand, she felt her skirts tumble down over her naked bottom, the cool fabric was scratchy. Her head was al light headed and disorientated and it took her a few blinks to make eye contact with him. 
"How was that my dear?" his voice was low and smoky and her mind melted once more, her knees started to let her down again. But the next thing she new, he had picked her up and was lowering her onto the couch in the study. "That was truly bliss. I had forgotten just how much I loved being spanked!"
"Well I am very pleased to hear that my little Mattie.... very pleased indeed......"



to be continued.............

around the cheeks in 80 spanks

I saw this picture on my travels, (sorry if its already been used) and smiled so much...... had to share with all.
It reminded me of if I had to learn my geography again...... think this would be a very effective way lol....

im in the process of the next bit for my story..... so watch this space...... xx

This is near where i used to live!

When out walking with the hubby after all the storms in the woods where we live, all our paths looked like dried up river beds from where there had been high current of water running in torrents. Was just fascinating to see. Its amazing what effect water can have.

But I'm now feeling for all those ones that have got flooded homes, or who have lost a loved one in this freak weather the Midlands of England got today.

A new school

She was tired from all the travelling. It had been a busy few weeks, getting everything organised, packed and travel arranged to the highlands. Her ass was sore from sitting on the coach for so long, the horses had found every pothole and hard rock on the roads leading up. The corset bones dug into her ribs, and all she wanted to do was shed her many petticoats and under garments, sink into a bath with a nice cup of tea.... and maybe a wee dram. However the Headmaster had other ideas.

"How was the journey Miss....?"
"Miss Heggie Head master" she replied with a small yawn
"sorry you must be so tired, where have you had to travel from?"
" I was in London, but my family and I are from the highlands sir." They were sitting in the heads study, just off from his main office of the school. The peat fire was ablaze and the seats were soft and welcoming. It was hard for her to keep focused, let alone awake. On arrival, the caretaker has ushered her into the main hall of this formidable girls school, and told her to wait! Finally a tall man in had appeared. His face was young, firm but had a smile on for her benefit. His beard was thick, long and full, his hair was also thick long and tied back with a ribbon.
"When will I be starting lessons head master...?"
"Please call me Hamish Miss Heggie, the other senior staff and myself thought it would be to your benefit that you have a week to get to know the layout of the school and staff before you had to plunge into teaching my dear. how would that suit you?
" I thank you very much Headmaster... I mean Hamish."
She drained her drink, and stifled a yawn once more" Ok be away te bed wet ye my dear and i will call for you after breakfast. Welcome to Loch Arron school for girls."

Her sleep had been long and deep, she woke refreshed and vitalised ready to meet the day and all that would present its self.... or so she thought! After a warming breakfast of parrich, she made her way back down the corridor towards the heads office. She hadn't really looked at the office in detail the night before, but now she was standing hear in full day light. The room its self was large with a old oak desk just in front of the window. There were book shelves on nearly all the walls, filled with books, and old artefacts that she was sure had much history and stories to. Some old musty pictures were situated at higher points on the wall, but what drew her interest the most, was the wall by the window. Hanging up was a fine display of tawse and straps.! The Head had been informing her of the rules, and the workings of the school when he noticed upon her gaze. He also noticed that there was a glint in her eye, mmmmm he said to himself, I might be able to enjoy this wee lassy.
"Have you had the experience of my tools Miss Heggie?"
Her cheeks flushed but her voice never faltered " My father has 4 sons and 4 daughters sir,  and he has been known to discipline us when the occasion presented itself. I myself only received the hand and the slipper, but my brothers were less lucky. "
"Mmmmmmmmm well maybe I could interest you to a personal encounter with them some day?"
Her attention switched to him. Did he really just say that.... yes he actually did, how did he know? She tried to not let her feelings show on her face but it didn't work. with that same glint in her eyes she looked directly into his and said " Headmaster, that would be most.. enjoyable"

To be continued.....

Hello all

Hello there one and all. if its not available on my profile etc, then I haven't had a blog for some years. I am my husbands sub, and love him very much. we are a family that practice DD. My aim for this blog is to write short stories, spanking and maby otherwise. and to share our spanking experiences. 

Thank you for coming to look at my page, i hope you will find it friendly and enjoyable to be on. as time goes by i will explain why iv'e called myself Ticcers Wife.... some may guess, but some my be a little shocked lol. thank you for coming to visit this humble little blog.

TW